Camping with 32 kids in Nepal!

Can you imagine taking 32 children camping?  In Nepal??  With wheelchairs, walkers and crutches???  Well, we did just that several weeks ago in the scenic town of Dhulikhel, about 45 minutes outside Kathmandu!  

These 32 children are from DNC- Disabled Newlife Center.  They are children Gina and I have known for so many years.  Their physical disabilities are varied and challenging but their warmth and love is like a warm hug every time we visit.  Seeing them grow up is both meaningful and frustrating in that we are only able to visit them in-person once a year.  However, Nepal Rotary and Rotaract have made a lasting impact in their lives with both grant funding and ‘hands-on’ guidance and personal involvement.

Our Rotary volunteer group arrived at the park just slightly ahead of the rented bus that brought the kids and staff.  Our Sherpa helpers and Everest Express Travel staff  had already set up the tents and were busy cooking lunch for all.  We had such a nice group of Rotaract volunteers from the Rotaract Club of Kopundol and the Rotaract Club of Dhulikhel helping with games and logistics. 

As the children and staff piled off the bus our volunteer group immediately got busy helping, playing and doing whatever was needed.  No parks are disability-friendly in Nepal, but this park wasn’t too bad once you got the kids up the stairs onto the flat area on top.  The wheelchairs and walkers were able to negotiate the paths around the park but getting down the stairs to the bathroom required helped from adults, volunteers and staff.

We brought balls and games but what was an immediate ‘hit’ was the face painting set that Doug and Sonja Kyes (from Renton Rotary Club) brought and set up!  Doug is an artist by trade.  He set up his paints and within about 5 minutes there was a long line of kids awaiting his talented brushes.  He worked quickly and soon many children were parading around like living artwork!  Within a couple of hours, most of the children had something whimsical, fun or beautiful painted on their faces or arms.  After Doug got tired, 15 year-old DNC resident Puskar Magar took over and lent his substantial artistic talents to decorate the remaining children.  Puskar was born without a right hip and leg.  He is also missing two fingers on his right hand but he is a true artist in every sense of the word.  He typically paints in watercolor, but he also dabbles oils and other media.  He has been having great fun trying out different artists’ styles as he experiments and grows.  

After a delicious Sherpa-prepared Nepali lunch we started another project that Rotarian Donna Eggen had thought up: “sit-upon pillows”.   What you do is take two pieces of colorful fabric about 18 inches square, cut strips all around the outside, insert a piece of foam (for padding), then tie each top and bottom strip together in a double knot.  You work your way, tying knots all around the fabric and…..voila!  You have a nifty pillow that is both useful and a is great souvenir of the trip.  The Sherpa staff got busy cutting the foam and the kids all grabbed their fabric and began working.  This is a fun and easy project for any group of kids and it was a great success.

The Rotaractors managed to find a sound system so that we could play some Nepali dance music and then….everyone was dancing…kids in wheelchairs, walkers, young, old, volunteers and DNC staff!  The dancing lasted until dinnertime.  After dinner the sun began to set and the children got ready to head to their tents.  It was another emotional, yet inspirational day for our entire group.  Memories were created that none of us will ever forget, not the kids, not the volunteers and not the staff.

Special thanks go to my Rotarian mentor & friend- RR Pandey and his company, Everest Express Tours & Travel who arranged all of the logistics and transportation.  Our thanks go to Tapan (from Everest Express) and our hard-working and caring Sherpa staff who set up the tents and arranged for hot meals cooked on-site.  Also, special thanks to our TRIFC supporters whose generous donations funded this trip.

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Some of the group right after arrival at the park.

 


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Tika (on right) has fun pushing Bishnu (on left) around the park!

 


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Saraswati (on left) and Sushma (on right) experience tents and sleeping bags for the first time!

 


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Muna (my nickname for her is little mosquito) carefully chooses her tent.

 


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Doug Kyes paints Muna's face with a beautiful motif!

 


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Sabina patiently awaits her face painting

 


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Muna looking pretty!

 


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Tika with his 'sit-upon' pillow

 


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Sandi helping with the knots on the pillows

 


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From the left:  Suramaya, Bishnu, RR and Brittany staying in the shade...

 


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Pushkar at work creating art on kids!

 


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Babulal (on left) and Aiok (on right)

 


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Gina and Rose dancing to the Nepali beat!

 


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Rajiv and Eric having a quiet moment...

 


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Rajiv and Rob

 


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Our volunteers get into the dancing action!

 


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Laxmi loves to pose....

 


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Babulal wearing Brittany's hat!

 


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Bikash and his beautiful flower...

 

 

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Gina with many 'well-wishers'.

 

 

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Rotary USA/Nepal - Cerebral Palsy Project

Several weeks ago we participated in a wonderful ‘hands-on’ project with the staff and teachers from the Self Help Center for Children with Cerebral Palsy and many volunteers from our visiting group.   We had 10 Rotarians and TRIFC volunteers from the USA along with Rotarians from the RC Himalaya-Patan and 17 enthusiastic participants from the Rotaract Club of Kathmandu Mid-Town!  A Rotary matching grant recently provided specially designed tables and chairs for children and families associated with this center.  

Cerebral palsy (CP) is a neurological disorder that affects muscle tone, movement, and motor skills (the ability to move in a coordinated and purposeful way). Cerebral palsy can also lead to other health issues, including vision, hearing, and speech problems, and learning disabilities. The Rotary granted tables and chairs were designed and manufactured in Nepal and allow the parents of these children to have a safe and skeletally correct place for their child to sit at home.  Believe it or not, without these tables and chairs, parents who must work in the fields all day are sometimes forced to tie-up their children or dig a hole to put their children in so that they don’t hurt themselves.  These are not bad parents, they just have no other options… 

The children oftentimes have an intelligent mind that has been trapped inside an uncooperative body. One of the older boys – Bikash initially appeared uncommunicative and difficult to connect with.  But if you looked past that, sat down next to him and asked questions he could answer them all – in English!  It took some time and patience to wait for him to respond but he gave thoughtful, thorough answers.  I found out later that he was even able to type essays on the computer, laying down on the floor and tapping the keyboard with his feet….the more time I spend in Nepal with children with disability, the more I learn from them!

Thanks to Rain City Rotarian and all-around crafty person- Donna Eggen, we brought materials and supplies to do a fun project with the children – decorating hand-puppets!  After a brief walk through of the center and introduction of staff, teachers and children, Donna quickly instructed the volunteer group on what to do.   Then everyone grabbed their materials and began working one-to-one with a child.  This proved to be the perfect project for this group of children as it didn’t take to long to complete and allowed for more interaction time with the children.

TRIFC provided the funding for Rotaract transportation, logistical support and lunch for all.  Many tears were shed that day but they were tears of understanding, tears of empathy, tears of joy to have had that wonderful experience with those beautiful children.

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Renton Rotarian Doug Kyes with a new friend!


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Bellevue Rotarian Eric Postle with his new friend!


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Bikash....look within to see and hear the beauty and intelligence.


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Rain City Rotarian, Donna Eggen explaining the finer points of puppet construction...


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Bellevue Rotarian Brittany Barker working with her friend...


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Kathmandu Mid-town Rotaractor on-the-job!


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My new puppet friend!


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Rotaractor Puja helping her friend's puppet talk to her neighbor's puppet.


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Lake Union Rotary Club's Larry Logue showing off his friend's puppet 

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Gina Rose and her friend, Sushmita

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Eric having fun!


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Donna and friend...


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Puppet Under Construction!


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The expressions tell the story...

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Specially-designed tables and chairs for children with cerebral palsy ready to deliver to families
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Rob & Gina at RI Convention in Bangkok!

Sawadee kap (that is 'hello' in Thai by a person who is of male gender) from Bangkok!  

Gina and I are enjoying the RI convention along with 40,000 of our fellow Rotary/Rotaract friends from around the world!  What an amazing group of individuals (and couples) who share similar goals, ideals and purpose to positively impact their community and the world. 

We've already made many new Rotary friends from countries like Kenya, Malaysia, Nepal (of course), Germany, Thailand, Canada and different states from around the US!

The opening plenary session was fantastic.  It was so inspiring to see the flags of all of the countries where Rotary is present (178!!!).  Three new countries were just added including the newest addition - Bhutan.  25 Nepali Rotarians flew to Bhutan at the end of April for that chartering ceremony.

RI President Kalyan Banerjee gave an inspiring opening talk about where Rotary is now, and where it will be headed in the near future.  A new soon-to-launch website, new PR opportunities and new ways to connect Rotarians and clubs around the world.  The 'new' Rotary will allow us to take advantage of technology and social marketing to expand our impact.

The 'House of Friendship' showcases many of the projects and programs done by clubs and districts.  You can see the attached photo of Gina with a working prosthetic hand that one club and district distribute to those in need around the world....truly amazing!    Please make plans to attend next year's convention in Lisbon!  See you soon....

Yours in Rotary & TRIFC,
-Rob.

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Polio Drops of Life!

Dear TRIFC & Rotary Friends,

We have had so many remarkable experiences on this trip it's difficult to pick one to write about! Eric Postle and Brittany Barker (and the other Rotarian volunteers from other clubs) have been super volunteers pitching in wherever needed.

The other day we took 32 children with disability camping overnight with tents, songs, games and plenty of music and dancing! I'll share more about that experience in another post but this time I wanted to share something very close to every Rotarians heart....giving the drops of life to insure that no child anywhere in the world need ever suffer from the crippling disease of polio.

Our group participated in Nepal's national polio immunization day and walked throughout the old town of Dhulikhel handing out leaflets and visiting two stations of volunteer women who were giving the drops and putting the 'purple-pinkie' die on each child's little finger to indicate they had received their immunization.

It was such a moving experience to actually participate in this annual event and to see how involved the local Rotarians and Rotaractors are in the campaign. Dhulikhel Rotary President Ashok Shrestha led the way with his Rotary/Rotaract team close behind! Eric, Brittany and I all gave the polio immunization drops to waiting children....it was so moving to look into these children's eyes and know that they will be safe from polio forever! That is a great feeling indeed and Rotary is the organization that is getting it done! Yours in Rotary,
-Rob.

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Table Tennis Comes to DHC

TRIFC is proud to have been able to purchase two table tennis boards for organizations in Nepal.  One of them is pictured here....children with disability at DHC center are now able to get some great exercise as well as have fun at the same time!  Table tennis is excellent physical therapy for children with disability and I could tell right away that many of them had some great skills!

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Memorial for Bujana...

Last week there was an emotional memorial service at the Disabled Newlife Center (DNC) for Bujana who passed away at the age of 13. This was an opportunity for all of the children to say goodbye to their cherished friend, as the cremation ceremony I wrote about earlier took place very quickly after she passed away and most were not in attendance. Eyes filled with sadness, remembrances, words of inspiration and encouragement. I also spoke to the group about how Bujana lives on within our memory. This is true of all that have passed before us, isn't it?

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Spinal Injury Rehab Center Program

Recently, I attended the 10th Anniversary Program for the Spinal Injury Rehabilitation Center (SIRC).  I came to the event with my good Rotary friend- Padam Lal Maharjan and his wife, Kalpana.  Also along for the day was Ms. Sharada Adhikari who works for the Helen Keller Foundation here in Kathmandu.  She is another talented, remarkable woman with blindness.

There were many people with disability in attendance and many wheelchairs with engaged onlookers there to celebrate the wonderful work this center has provided over the past 10 years.  We parked in a big field nearby the center and stepped out of the car amidst numerous goats and chickens!  The center is close to the highway, yet it still seems quite rural as you drive up the hill for a couple of minutes.

When we entered the courtyard I was so surprised to see our friend and sponsored person with disability, Rakesh Gwachha.  Rakesh has a condition called 'brittle bone disease'; his bones are too weak to support his body and he sits about two feet tall.  He was smiling ear-to-ear when he spotted me....I pulled him out of line and wheeled him down to be with me during the program.

Also in attendance were numerous classic Volkswagen Beetles!  They were part of an international road rally to raise money for SIRC.  I've attached a nice photo of Rakesh sitting in the driver's seat of one of them.  One of my Rotary friends- Prabhu Bhandary was kind enough to let Rakesh have that experience.

One of the USA/Nepal Disability Awareness Campaign's Rotary Matching Grant projects involves this center where they have trained people with disability to assemble 100 wheelchairs for disability.  That project is with the Rotary Club of Itahari and Rotary Club of Pokhara Fishtail.  The main international partner is the Rotary Club of Renton.  

Remarkable work done by a remarkable organization benefitting people with disability!

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Distinguished Guests

Rakesh at the wheel!

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Rakesh and Rob!

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Prabhu Bhandari and his Beetle!

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Rakesh and Sharada

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Disabled New Life Center

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A very sad story. This child's parents are alcoholic and used this child as a beggar to earn money. To increase earnings they burned half his face and burned off his ear.
They also mutilated one hand, both legs and one foot. An Australian woman found him dancing naked on the street for money. She rescued him and brought him to the Disabled New Life Cemter where he has has several surgeries and is scheduled for more! It was amazing to see him smiling and laughing playing with other children in spite of his horrendous past. The miracle of love and the resilience of the human spirit should never be discounted.
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We've reached our fundraising goal!

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Namaste Friends!

I am happy to report that we have reached our fundraising goal of $5400 to help fund school tuition and expenses for the kids at DHC New Life Center just in time for the new school year! DHC New Life Center is a new home for disabled and disadvantaged children in Nepal that we've been working with over the last year. I have had the honor of volunteering with most these children back in 2006 when they were at another home. Thank-you to all of you who donated so generously via TRIFC and our partner, Jolkona, to help these wonderful teens!!

With utmost gratitude,
Jackie

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An Unexpected Loss in Nepal...

Bujana has died. A little girl from one of the organizations we have helped through Bellevue Rotary and through my own non-profit has passed away at the age of 13....her suffering has ended, but her memory is embedded within the many who knew her and loved her. Bujana suffered from a severely twisted spine which kept her from growing straight and tall. Instead she was bent and short. Her spirit, however was straight, strong and indomitable.... just yesterday she had talked with Shanti (DNC's house-mother) about her studies and returning to DNC (Disabled Newlife Center) where she has lived for the past two years, awaiting an operation on her spine.

I visited Bujana in the hospital ICU the day before yesterday. She held my hand and even smiled when I told her I intended to keep the blue ICU hospital gown as it matched my eye color. She had appeared to be improving but the doctor told us after our visit that her prognosis wasn't good. Blood was pooling in one side of her heart and not pumping properly to the other side so it wasn't being properly oxygenated. She had been on a ventilator, improved a bit, then took a turn for the worse today and passed away this afternoon.

Her brother had arrived about a week earlier when Bujana was originally admitted to the hospital and her father, a poor farmer from a distant Nepali village arrived shortly after she passed away. His body was bent as well, not as severely as Bujana but you could tell that this condition must have been an inherited trait. The Nepali Board members of DNC were present as were our donor friends, Fran and Michael from the UK and my Nepali Rotary partner and close friend, RR Pandey. I paid one last visit after she had passed away and she looked at peace after 13 years of struggling with this debilitating condition. Monumental struggles, questions unanswered, a life unfulfilled. In my humble opinion, ours is not to question... but to live our lives with purpose, direction and passion.

What happened after Bujana's death was an extraordinary experience. Within about an hour after her father had arrived, an ambulance was summoned and her body was taken to Pashupatinath Temple where bodies of the departed are prepared for cremation and purification of the ashes in the holy Bagmati river. Shanti (house-mother) and I went to the nearby stalls to purchase the ritual flowers and incense that are laid on and around the body as it set on a bed of wood in preparation for cremation. After we returned to the place where the body was laid at the edge of the river, Bujana's father took lighted incense and walked his aged, bent body around Bujana three times. Then the wood was set ablaze and the fire engulfed the body. It was visceral, surreal event. Some might find this ritual difficult or offensive. I found it spiritual and entrancing....I was there in the moment, experiencing the after effects of death, the inevitable result of life. I had been to Pashupatinath many times over the years, always observing from across the river, present but apart from the actual event. I never imagined that one day I would be on the other side, taking in the pungent smell of the marigold malla (lei) that I had laid on the body, hearing the crackling fire raging in front of me, consuming the remains of my friend and hearing the soft mooing of the cow standing on the other side of the river- calling, calling, calling... Bujana gave much to many people. Inspiration, courage and wisdom are her gifts. Like all children with critical illness who have left us too soon, they teach us lessons to live our lives by. Bujana has died and I am sorry to send this news but as you are all my friends I wanted to share this experience with you.

Sincerely,
-Rob.

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